What song do you want to sing?
Jul 25, 2020
Many of us like to sing, but have been taught that we are not a "singer". Or that singing is only for a reserved few. But, really we all have vocal cords and a Body and thus we are all equipped with the instrument to sing. Singing is really a practice of developing coordination, much like learning anything.
But, if you really love singing and feel like you aren't a singer, I would suggest that you play with the idea of identifying AS a singer. What this means is changing your belief that you aren't a singer into the belief that you ARE a singer. The practiced shift in the mindset will bring you into alignment with all the right steps to release your voice.
Start with these simple steps :
1. Create a vision board, box, binder, or a computer file and start to collect lyric sheets of the songs you would love to sing, or sheet music. Add pictures of the artists who inspire you, etc. Write out what it is you want to do as a singer, really envision it and practice that as a mental rehearsal.
2. Read Blogs about singing and watch YouTube videos and simply immerse yourself in the world of singing. There are lots of resources for sheet music and lyric sheets and karaoke's, dive in and have fun.
3. Begin to sing on a regular basis, as you make it a habit, you will make continual progress, you will feel good, you will have fun, and more importantly you will be affirming your identity each time that you are a singer.
A "singer" is simply someone who sings, it isn't a finish line. If you are practicing singing each week, which includes shower and car singing, you are in fact a singer. It is a lifelong process, not a destination.
As you think about singing, study it, and do it, you are embodying the Identity of a singer and as you feed that identity, you will want to sing, study, and do it even more. Creating a fantastic self-affirming "Singer" identity loop!
Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity. ~ James Clear
Author: Tammy Frederick
Feb 3, 2020
The key issue that interferes with a wider vocal range is the engagement of the throat and neck muscles around the larynx. These exterior muscles are strong and can pull your larynx up as you move to higher pitches. However, the key to effortless singing is to keep these muscles relaxed so that the vocal chords, housed inside your larynx, are free to adjust forwards and backwards to your desired pitches.
Here are 5 Easy Tips to help you keep the muscles around your larynx relaxed and therefore increase your range.
1. Try bending your knees as you approach higher notes. This will help the mind focus on going down and helps release these muscles.
2. From there, take it a step further and bend over from the waist, looking toward your toes as if you are going to pick the high note up off the floor. Keep your torso flat so you are not curling your body.
3. Imagine pitch moving forwards and backwards. Your vocal chords adjust forwards and backwards on a horizontal plane so this will help you mentally stay in alignment with what your physiology is doing. When you feel pitch move up and down, what you are actually feeling is the vibration or resonance of the pitch moving up and down.
4. Speak the lyrics of your song first, then sing them. This will give your body the opportunity to feel how the words move your breath and mouth before adding pitch. This can make a huge difference right away. Then when you start to sing again try to continue to maintain the feeling of speaking, but now you are speaking on pitch.
5. Focus on the story. What is your song about? Who are you talking to in the song? What are the emotions and what do you need from the other person? Once you have done the other 4 tips, give this one a try. By taking your mind's focus off the technical aspect of singing and onto the story you will be more connected to the song, more relaxed, and your voice will release more easily and naturally.
I hope you enjoy trying all of these!
Author: Tammy Frederick
Dec 16, 2019
There seems to be a lot of confusion about breathing when it comes to singing. Really all we are looking for is that the breath is allowed to fill into the lungs and exhale in a steady manner. It is actually detrimental to take in too much air before you sing a phrase in a song. If you ever have it that the voice sounds shaky especially as you descend in pitch, it is very often because you simply have taken in too much air that now has to find release.
Try taking in a normal amount of air as if you were in a conversation. No doubt some phrases in a song or a phrase that includes a long sustained note will require more air intake, but the majority of your phrasing will be quite normal.
The key in singing is to focus on the exhale, not so much on the inhalation. Your body will breathe in automatically and so focus on breathing out as you sing, easily releasing your air in a steady stream.
The best best best tool for this is to sing with Liprolls (motor boat sound with your lips) or Tongue Trills (rolling the front of your tongue). Sing all your favourite songs with a liproll or tongue trill and you will guarantee that you are singing with a consistent steady stream of air. In order for the lips or tongue to keep moving, you must be exhaling a steady stream of air which will quickly develop this muscle memory in your songs. It will also serve to keep the facial and throat muscles relaxed, which is ideal for singing.
Place one hand on your belly, just above your belly button. When you breathe in allow your belly to move FORWARD. As you exhale the belly will fall back. This is the action of your diaphragm contracting downward as you breathe in moving your organs slightly forward and as you exhale the diaphragm relaxes. The action downward allows your lungs to fully expand. Try to keep inhalations relaxed and full with tongue relaxed. If you are struggling with this watch someone breathe as they sleep, their belly will rise and fall with each breath. Or lay on the floor with your feet up on a chair, relax, and watch your belly rise and fall. Try to continue this easy breathing as you sing and speak.
Author: Tammy Frederick
Nov 18, 2019
The key to vocal endurance and easy release of the voice is to plan out where you are going to breathe in your song BEFORE you sing the song!
Take a moment to print off a lyric sheet or the sheet music and mark with a check mark with a pencil where you are going to breathe in your song.
Try to look at phrasing of your story - how you would speak the sentence.
Try to sing longer phrases, ie. two sentences together, rather than shorter; doing so will increase your breath capacity for those long notes at the end of the song.
Try to sing with those same breath marks every time you sing the song to build your muscle memory.
Note: Just because there is a rest, doesn't mean you should take a breath in. Sing through rests by simply exhaling rather than inhaling through them. If its hard at first, sing the last note before the rest longer to cover the rest until your body gets used to breathing out through the phrase, then go back to observing the rest with simply exhaling through it.
Try it and see the difference in your breath capacity!
"I can't explain it, but I'll find a song that can"
Author: Tammy Frederick
Nov 11, 2019
Tonic: Boost, pick-me-up, energizer, refresher.
It is an interesting mysticism that surrounds the concept of singing. It is a natural expression of our body and yet somewhere in our history the act of singing became segregated from the masses and was allotted its own category as a profession. It is truly a wonderful art form that can move us to such a deep level when we are among those who release our voices regularly or if we listen to the voices of some of our fellow human’s sing, but what about the rest of the human race who are not or did not intend to pursue singing as a profession? Does this mean we should not sing? Our singing voice is a natural extension of our speaking voice and able to carry our emotions, thoughts, and feelings out of our bodies. So how does this affect the body and mind if we unintentionally or intentionally silence our voice? It could be very detrimental, but on the other hand, if we recognize that every BODY was meant to sing, then we may have rediscovered the simplest healing tool ever.
Physical Effects of Singing
Release of Endorphins
Singing releases endorphins, your body’s “feel good” chemicals. This provides you with an overall lifted feeling. Endorphins enhance the immune system, relieve pain and reduce stress. Explain endorphins more? One more sum up sentence.
Singing encourages deep breathing which draws more oxygen into your blood stream. Oxygen provides your brain with the much needed food for its functioning, improving concentration and memory, and learning. Provides a feeling of increased energy. Stimulate areas of the brain involved with memory, learning and concentration. Oxygen is your greatest and first source of energy. It is the fuel required for the proper operation of all body systems. It also calms the mind and stabilizes the nervous system.
Singing improves your musculature. It encourages better posture, tones the abdominal and intercostals muscles and the diaphragm. Singing also exercises many of the muscles in the face, head and neck. reducing muscle tension and promoting increased relaxation. One sentence to sum this up.
Singing promotes relaxation. By concentrating on breathing, lyrics, posture, and interpretation the mind is taken off of other aspects of life, it is a built in stress-free zone. The physical increase of oxygen and the coordination of musculature also lend itself to a feeling of relaxation as you sing and afterwards.
Start Singing Now
Even being aware of all these amazing benefits of singing, there may still exist the fear of being heard or sharing your voice. You do not have to perceive yourself as a “good” singer in order to start reaping the many benefits of singing, and the only way to improve is to actually start doing it! Here are a few suggestions to get you going so you can start accessing your very own built-in health tonic today.
- Put a playlist together of your favourite songs and sing along in the shower, car, or anywhere you like! Then take the next step and download lyric sheets and karaoke tracks from the internet and practice singing your favourite songs this way. Singing songs in this manner, increases your connection and understanding of the vocal process.
- Humming will have just as positive an effect! You don’t even need music, make up your own melody and just hum and vocalize however you want. Pick a pitch and sustain a vowel such as “eee” or “oooh” or “oooo” or “aaah”. Something as simple as singing a nursery rhyme or happy birthday will provide you with all the same benefits.
- Then if you want singing to be a more prominent aspect of your life consider joining a choir, taking singing lessons, jamming with friends or numerous other ways you can begin releasing your voice regularly.
The key to this simple health tonic is like anything else, you just have to do it. Try to see how you can fit singing into every day. It can be as simple as humming a tune or singing along with one song, to feel the immediate positive effects. It is a cumulative process too, if you add a little singing every day, the effects will grow and deepen. Sing for yourself, for your own personal goals and fulfillment, Sing for your overall well-being and happiness. You can tap into your own tonic right now by simply singing. The first step is to simply sing.
Author: Tammy Frederick
Nov 4, 2019
On some level, you can relate to the essence of any song. Understanding what your song is about is the first step to being able to express it; however, relating it to personal experience assists you in connecting to it and expressing it in an authentic way. By doing this you begin to breathe life, confidence, and emotion into the song. Start by thinking about the basic essence of your song as explored in the last blog post called Your Song's Story. Your song may be about love, hardship, loss, achievement, or desire. Now, think about a personal experience in your own life where you experienced a similar situation or emotion. Any personal experience, no matter how small, can offer you the feeling you want to duplicate. As you sing your song, imagine you are singing about your own experience. Use the lyrics of the song to pour your own story out into the world. This is an exercise to help you access deeper levels of expression with your song. The more connected you are to the story the more meaningfully you will be able to express it vocally and thus connect with your audience.
the expression of one's feelings, thoughts, or ideas, especially in writing, art, music, or dance.
Author: Tammy Frederick
Oct 28, 2019
Ultimately, as a singer, you are a storyteller painting images and experiences with the lyrics you sing. Begin to think about the story of your song.
What is it about?
What is the emotional journey of the song?
Who are you singing it too?
What is your objective in the song?
What is the outcome of the story?
Doing this simple exercise will also assist you vocally. When your focus is brought onto the story of the song it is taken off of the technical aspects of “singing it”. As you increase your awareness of the expression of your song there is a positive effect on releasing breath and extra muscularity. It will also make it a lot more fun as you get to go on the full emotional ride of the song!
Author: Tammy Frederick
Oct 21, 2019
The most powerful exercise you can do right now is to use your mind to visualize what you want. Whatever your goal is, first imagine yourself in that ideal picture. In general we think in images. Continue to flash the image of what you desire onto the movie screen of your mind. Imagine yourself singing effortlessly and with great joy in the situation of your choice. It may be singing to a loved one, performing live on stage, or jamming with a group of friends. Begin by seeing yourself in that situation in the manner you choose: relaxed, confident, and eager to share your voice with others. Practice this vision multiple times every day. Employ the power of written words by taking time to write out the script of how it will all unfold for you. Write from the place as if your desire has already happened and it went even better than you could have imagined. Review your script at least once a day. Add to its power by saying your written words out loud.
Mental Rehearsal Script:
Be as detailed as possible when you write your script. Paint the whole picture of the event. How you looked, who was there, the beautiful mood of the event, the perfect weather, everything you want. Describe it in detail as if you are writing about it after it has occurred. It has happened and it unfolded in this perfect way. Your mental rehearsal script can be used to create any situation...
“Thank you for the amazing outcome to _________________________. Everything went so smoothly and turned out better than I could have possibly imagined. I was relaxed, calm, confident, and pleasantly excited the entire time. I am so grateful for this incredible unfolding and the joy I experienced today. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”
"Brain studies now reveal that thoughts produce the same mental instructions as actions. Mental imagery impacts many cognitive processes in the brain: motor control, attention, perception, planning, and memory. So the brain is getting trained for actual performance during visualization. It’s been found that mental practices can enhance motivation, increase confidence and self-efficacy, improve motor performance, prime your brain for success, and increase states of flow—all relevant to achieving your best life!" ~ Psychology Today
"There is one thing that separates elite athletes from average athletes… Elite athletes utilize the power of guided imagery or visualization. Imagery has long been a part of elite sports and many Olympic athletes have mastered the skill with the help of Sport Psychologists and Mental Game Coaches. When athletes visualize or imagine a successful competition, they actually stimulate the same brain regions as you do when you physically perform that same action. Visualization in sports or mental imagery is a way of conditioning for your brain for successful outcomes." ~ Peak Performance Sports
Author: Tammy Frederick